Today, an astonishing 3 in 4 American adults have at least one chronic health condition. Millions navigate not only the physical burden of these conditions but also the emotional strain—managing relationships, careers, and daily life under the constant shadow of potential health complications.

In this deeply personal and empowering prescriptive memoir, patient and advocate Gwen Mayes reveals the hidden emotional toll of living with chronic illness—and how resilience, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence can transform the journey. Written with candor, hope, and humor and drawing on her own decades-long experience with heart disease and career as a physician assistant, she explores the profound mind-body connection, the gaps in our health care system, and the strategies that help patients stay grounded when their physical health feels unpredictable.

With practical tools, journaling prompts, and inspiring patient stories, this book offers guidance for reclaiming joy, building emotional stamina, and navigating the challenges of chronic illness with courage and clarity.

From challenges to remain emotionally secure to the future of technology to replace the human touch, Mayes brings it all to the table. The result is a compassionate roadmap for anyone seeking strength, hope, and balance while living with the invisible weight of long-term health conditions.

Released November 3, 2026 by Mayo Clinic Press

Gwen Mayes’ extraordinary and candid story of managing a serious heart condition without losing her humanity is the essential thread woven throughout More Person Than Patient. It invites the reader, a fellow traveler in the terrain of chronic illness, to trust this newfound friend. Gwen has lived to tell the tale, and in doing so, generously offers a lyrical yet down to earth and practical soulful guide to protect and honor your humanity and personhood while grappling with the serious and very real burden of long-term chronic condition management.

– Elizabeth Bailey, author of The Patient’s Checklist: 10 Simple Hospital Checklists to Keep You Safe, Sane, and Organized 

“In More Person Than Patient, Gwen Mayes’ voice is fearless and deeply human—naming the emotional truths of chronic illness that too often go unspoken. With clarity, compassion, and resolve, Gwen reclaims dignity and agency for patients and charts a path forward grounded in hope.”

– Celina Gorre, MPH, MPA, CEO WomenHeart

Gwen Mayes is like a wise, funny big sister who has been through the wringer and is ready to share her survival tips. More Person Than Patient is a broadly applicable, deeply researched guide to living with chronic illness. I can’t wait to put her practical tips into action in my own life and share this book with colleagues and friends.

– Susannah Fox, author of Rebel Health: A Field Guide to the Patient-Led Revolution in Medical Care

More Person Thank Patient is a powerful and much-needed addition to the conversation around chronic illness. What sets this book apart is not only Gwen’s extraordinary journey, but her ability to transform that experience into meaningful, practical guidance for others. Gwen’s voice is honest, compassionate, and empowering, offering readers both understanding and tools to navigate their own path with strength and clarity.

– Beth Battaglino, RN-C, CEO HealthyWomen